3 teenage girls and a boy?

You really got your hands full, that is an understatement! Wow, glad you have them in counseling. You should get counseling too, to help you deal with what these children have brought to your life. Good news is they grow up, bad news, it's still a few years off. Can't really get rid of them so all you can do is deal, right? Hope this helps. I have a teenaged son that I don't understand at times, but you are really in the trenches. Take care of yourself!